Asking Someone Out

Q: i love her but i have never talked to her. she is from a diffrent college from mine and i only have her email adress. she is too chritian and very reserved. also, sh is always bussy coz of the prg she is taking. i ned her for a serious relationship.

A: Even if a girl is busy, there would still be time for her to spend time with you especially if she is interested in you. Send her an e-mail introducing yourself. If it's possible, try chatting with her on line and exchanging photos of yourself so she would have an idea of what you look like. Once she feels acquainted with you, try asking her out by suggesting and avoiding asking questions that would lead to a yes-or-no answer. For instance, �We should check that new cafe sometime.� Check for her most available schedule and have all of your date planned out. The date would greatly depend on her schooling; it could either be a weekend at the movies or a quick lunch by the campus cafe. Try to sense if she is interested in you, and perhaps this date could lead to a serious relationship. However, the problem of not having enough time for each other would greatly detriment your relationship. Keep in mind to respect each other's schedule, but still try to find time to meet up. Good luck!